A Mother & Son Relationship…
Yes we all have them – Mothers – Most off us are really lucky we get to experience the Reall bond of the relationship between a mother and son. And yes there is the one’s that don’t experience the closeness of the mum, or the understanding the mother has off you, for the ones that are lucky the true love and support for life, does not matter what you do that will all ways be there with you through your life.
The Three Mum’s Off My Life…
Can I say that with the three mums – I believe I can in so many ways Lol…
My mum Julia – For many years to me and me only she was Ribs as for her small body structure but all ways said in the highest of respect, it was a small little thing between mum and me and one for many years. I was the oldest out off the four children which is not a problem, except it took me a long time to realise I was the one that was suppose to set an example for the other’s as we were from 7 to 14 years in difference off age.
My mum was Italian and my dad Irish they were brought up when kids new the meaning of respect to your oldest and had the right attitude, if not it was dealt with in a harsh way compared to days punishment that is a joke. Through growing up I was a pretty full on kid, played my biggest passion sport’s – AFL, Baseball, Surfing and fighting Haha one I adapted on my own Haha. My mum was the punisher as dad worked two jobs and trained hard for his sport Road Cycling, but in saying that dad was a very powerful man and when he talked you listened.
Mum has all ways been there for me from the start, teens, twenties, and so on until today off 64 and still is if needed. The four of us two daughters and two sons all get looked after and in her little way makes sure we are all good. It’s funny maybe because I was the first but maybe all so the age difference might’ve helped Haha – Little story if I don’t ring with in a week, mum will ring my daughter and ask if she has seen me, or ring me and say – hello has any one seen my son, I have a giggle Mmm I think I’m in my sixties, but then thats just a great mum making sure me and kids are good, dad he just knows that their kids are every thing to them docent matter at what age we will all ways bee there kids & life in what ever do.
Mum – Number 2
This Lady is the mother too my two kids that are well and truly adults now and living their lives in the way they want to live but as a dad I’m really proud in the directions they are both going. Now my daughter and the mother have a great relationship the true mother and daughter, very strong and growing all the time. Then there is the son his the oldest out off the two their both in their early thirties, with that they have an awesome bond and a really strong friendship and understanding of each other. Maree is a brilliant mum as most are with their kids, but she goes well truly over the line to make sure her kids and the grandkids are happy and well.
I won’t get into too deeply but Maree is not well with her health some times, but it does not matter how sick she is the mum is there for the kids 24 – 7 , it’s one off those saying’s and you know how strong her bond is with Wado – Toots & the two grandkids, but not only her kids also with her own family just drops and there for them at any time. Now we are good friends and yes i’m the dad too her two kids and yes I’m so proud off her in my own way for who she is ( sister Maree ) and what she is as a mother a great mum which runs off on too her daughter Lol.
Mum –Number 3
Well this lady is my favourite not being one sided or anything but No-3 is my daughter and she is a great mum. Toots was very young when she had her first at 18 years of age. It was a worry because she was so young… but to her credit she was a pure natural… I was absolutely over the moon and so was her mum, Toots just excepted the fact that she was a new mum and got on with what was needed to be done to bring up her first child and same with her second.
Kado was the first his 10 years older than Bubs now I’m not sure if it’s because his the first or he’s spoilt – i think the second one is the right answer Haha. Now my daughter loves both her kids and spoils both very much so, they are really looked after the mum and dad are so good with the kids and were both very young when they had them.
Kado is a great kid and he has a brilliant attitude and hold so much respect for everyone of all ages especially his family, for a young guy i’m so proud off him. Now if you were to say to Kado – mate you are so spoilt he just laughs and saids no I’m not Pop – but he is very much so Haha and so is Bubs and yes the son is so well looked after and very much mums twinkle in her eye, and Bubs and mum are building a great relationship as mother and daughter.
To Finish Off..
I understand as parents it certainly is testing through life and we learn every day with our kids doecent matter at what age or were we are in the world it’s the same for every parent. And yes today the son is as spoilt as the daughter is and yeas mum’s & sons have a great bond and relationship, as so the daughter. I know it’s not like this for every kid or families and i know how it is – as i worked with all kids off all ages through sports for 35 years plus, and saw the difference in life styles with all kids, with not being rude id think on the way home how lucky my kids and two grandkids are in life to have such great mums, the same with my two sisters and brother we are so lucky to have great parents and a fantastic mum.
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